
Psychotherapy for Gay Men:
Healing, Growth, and Self-Acceptance
I work with professional gay men in West Hollywood and virtually throughout California who want to understand themselves more fully. Many of the men I see are outwardly successful but carry shame, self-doubt, or an ongoing sense of being too much or not enough. It often shows up in relationships, dating, people pleasing tendencies, or repeating patterns that no longer serve you. You may overthink, use substances to cope, or feel burdened by work and expectations. I work best with men who value honesty, self-reflection, and personal responsibility.
I help gay men who are ready to stop second-guessing themselves and break free from shame, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. Therapy with me is collaborative. Together, we'll explore how past experiences have shaped your sense of self and help you live your life according to your true values, not what others expect.​
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Areas of Expertise: ​
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Struggling with relationships and self-worth
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Healing from religious trauma or family challenges
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Managing anxiety, self-doubt, and coping habits
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Building confidence and living authentically
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Navigating identity, self-acceptance, and spirituality
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How We Work Together​
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In our work together, we’ll explore patterns and experiences that may be influencing your thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. Through this process, we'll gain insight into past experiences that may be impacting your present life. My role is to help you make sense of these patterns, uncovering deeper understanding to foster meaningful, lasting change.​​​
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Fees & Insurance
I am an out-of-network therapist. Upon request, I’m happy to provide a monthly superbill for submission to your insurance company for possible reimbursement. Please feel free to reach out with any questions.


Background & Training
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Chris Tompkins is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#158578) based in Los Angeles, California. He earned a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University with a specialization in LGBTQ Affirmative Psychology.​
Chris began his psychotherapy training at The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology, where he completed Levels I and II of the Narrative Focused Trauma Care certificate through the Allender Center. He also completed clinical training at the Los Angeles LGBT Center, where he developed his competency as an LGBTQ-affirming psychotherapist.​
Prospective clients are invited to contact Chris directly at Info@ARoadTripToLove.com or (323) 484-3985.
